New York can be associated with many things, yet "friendly" is rarely the first word that springs into mind at the mention of the Empire. Not to say that it isn't, but the facts are facts, and there is American tourist solidarity in regards to friendly places, and New York wasn't even in the top 10 states (according to the World Population Review 2023 poll). Spoiler alert: Minnesota came first.
If there is anything NY towns can do, it is charm up the visitors. Just think of Skaneateles, although a larger town. Visit Westfield on a Great Lake for water fun, boating, and atmospheric sunset strolls, then steer clear of the Hamptons in Greenport for a seaside escape. Each with a fun upcoming festival, like Saugertie's quirky Hudson Valley Garlic Festival, offers to relax and recharge.